You’ve observed this particular guy’s actions for weeks. His glances, the way he behaves around you, the things he says, are all indicators that he really likes you. But all of a sudden, you see his behaviour change. He starts avoiding you! This article shares 5 things you must know about why would a guy avoid you if he likes you, so you can get and keep a worthy man who cherishes you for life!
1. Must-Know: Some guys just can’t stand losing control of their emotions.
Liking someone is irresistible. When a guy likes a girl and feels attracted to her, he starts behaving irrationally, and sometimes can’t control what he’s thinking and feeling. Some guys hate losing control over their emotions. And because being in control of his emotions is much more important to him than liking a girl, such a guy will do what he can to keep his emotions in check. He will avoid the girl he likes so he can stay in control – because it’s what keeps him comfortable in his life. It’s his way of coping with life.
If the guy you like is this way, I urge you to leave him be. Leave him to his preferences. It will take a ton of effort to help him see it’s safe for him to open his heart and lose control to love.
2. Must-Know: Even if he agrees to be in a relationship with you, he may still resent you for being the source of his discomfort.
It sounds crazy, but the human mind can’t help but behave irrationally until someone makes a decision to change and do something about it. Still, it takes a whole lot of motivation and determination for a person to change. Change can be hard.
While some say love conquers all, is all the heartache and drama really worth it? Leave the drama to tv shows and movies. Don’t spend your precious time and energy pursuing a guy who doesn’t desire to change from within. You deserve to be pursued and romanced by a guy who can’t help but want to see you everyday instead!
3. Must-Know: A guy will not avoid a girl he TRULY likes.
If a guy truly likes you, he will make it happen! He will put in superhuman time, effort and creativity to chase you and make you his girlfriend!
Very often, the guy you know at work, in school, or meet at social events, is concurrently attracted to MANY girls. It’s not just you. Don’t be surprised if he likes your best friend too! Hence, if a guy avoids you even though he likes you, very possibly, he could already be actively pursuing the girl he met yesterday, because he can’t wait to make her his girlfriend!
But these are things that he’s not going to tell you. Even his closest friend may not know he is actively chasing a girl right now!
4. Must-Know: Guys tend to keep their love lives private.
Guys often delay announcing their intentions to chase a girl until they succeed. This way, it spares themselves the double humiliation of being rejected and teased by his friends for failing!
So if a guy avoids you when you THINK he likes you, he could possibly already be serious with another girl whom you don’t know about yet. Instinctively, he knows that feeling attracted to you will jeopardize his plans of being with his dream girl. So he avoids you to keep his master plan intact!
5. Must-Know: It sounds romantic that a guy feels so attracted to you that he avoids you. But it really isn’t!
Stop your infatuation with this guy who avoids you. Notice the other guys around you who are doing their best to impress you instead. It’s the guys who take the time to help you and lend you their ears who deserve a chance! Appreciate them for being an important part of your life. Honestly, why wouldn’t you give a funny, sweet, caring guy a chance? Do you realize no guy NEEDS to spend his time with you? They too can avoid you just like this guy has… So appreciate what you have!