If you just ended your relationship and realized that you want your ex back, you have to work right away so you can still salvage what is left in your relationship. Here are few suggestions which you can follow:
Talk things out clearly.
Talking things over will clear some things that have been misunderstood. Don’t just talk, take time to listen as well and try to hear what your ex has to say. For your conversation to be effective, talk gently and listen to each other, only then would come understanding.
If he asks for it, give him a time out.
If you sense that your ex is not ready to face you, give your ex some space. Don’t rush things, while you give each other time away from each other, prepare a tactic on how to get him back.
Apologize even if it’s not your fault
Say sorry sincerely and admit the fact that you have committed some mistakes as well. Saying an apology is not a sign of weakness but a sign of courage. Mean it when you say sorry, try to change the wrong things and strive to be better.
Look more attractive for yourself and for him.
Always pay attention to your looks. A break up is never a reason to neglect your physical appearance. Looking good makes your ex realize what he is missing. Always take time to take care of your self. Taking good care of yourself is the best way to show your love for yourself.
Make him miss you with each new day.
Don’t bother your ex with tons of text messages or phone calls. Being silent makes your ex miss you and curiosity will creep into his system. He would also wonder if you have already moved on.
Remind your ex of your happy days together.
Make your ex reminisce your happy moments together. You can give him a photograph, perhaps, of your happiest escapade, a CD of the songs that both of you love to listen to, or you can send him a DVD of your favorite movie.
Kiss and make up.
Try to arrange a meet up with your ex. Try to settle things and accept each other again as you did at the beginning of your relationship. Let forgiveness reign in both of your hearts and everything should slowly come back in order.
No relationship is perfect. Once in a while there will always be some rough roads that you will need to tread. In case you come across road full of boulders, stay strong and in no time you should be able to pass all these obstacles.