Frank was a 39 year old sales manager who loved his wife completely but he was hiding a big secret from her. Frank craved to be in a loving female led relationship. He wanted his wife to take charge, he always thought about serving her coffee in bed, doing the housework and in general pleasing her.
The thought of waking up mornings and serving her coffee in bed with a long deep massage is what he wanted to do. He wanted her to tell him to do the laundry, clean the house, wash the dishes and most importantly to control his orgasms.
He knew that his sex drive was in direct connection with his desire to serve her. There was something deep inside him that made him feel this way and did not know how to talk to her about it.
He thought about different ways to approach her when he discovered some little known secrets that he could use to introduce her to this type of relationship. He developed a plan and then put it into action.
Men that want to introduce their wives to this type of lifestyle have to understand that if they want their wives to accept this lifestyle they have to be a little patient. Being introduced to anything new takes some time. As we get older we develop thoughts and behaviors and when any new information is introduced we will sometimes resist.
If your wife or girlfriend is a pretty open minded person who enjoys doing different things this won’t be much of a problem. When my husband first introduced me to this lifestyle I was open to it because I could see how important it was to him. At the same time I love trying new things. I love going to new restaurants, traveling to new places, meeting people and experiencing different things.
If your wife only likes to go to the same restaurant, goes to the same place on vacation every year and only has sex in the missionary position you may have a little more work to do. Its not an impossible situation it is just going to require a little more time – relax, it will be well worth it.
The first thing to understand is that when we are introduced to new information we need to get familiar with it before we get comfortable with it. I worked as a sales rep for a small AM radio station in a Midwestern state about ten years ago. When I would approach a small business owner about going on the radio they would immediately tell me that they would never do it. They had never considered it so they immediately said “NO.”
But as I developed a relationship with them and gradually got them used to the idea of radio advertising many of them reconsidered. So the first step in introducing your wife to a female led relationship is not walking into the bedroom with a leather paddle and handcuffs.
The best way to start is to play a simple game. Offer her a slave for a day coupon. You can give it on her birthday, Valentines day, Christmas or you can say you read an article that suggested it.
With the coupon give her a list of activities that she can choose from. A lot of women get a little overwhelmed when first confronted with this. They really don’t know how to be in charge. One of my problems when I first started this lifestyle was that I had to get used to receiving. I would never had asked my husband to do something for me that I could do for myself.
Some women don’t know what to do with some control and become frustrated by the whole process. Don’t get to out of control with your list, remember this is the first step to introducing your wife to having someone serve her.
Offer to bring her breakfast in bed, foot rubs, clean the bathroom etc. Think of the activities that she does not like to do and put them on your list. Make sure you do as good a job as you can.
At the end of the day ask her how she liked being spoiled, ask her if she liked you serving her. Tell her that you had a great time and here’s the important point: Offer to do it again next week. During the week offer to help and pay attention to her needs.
The following week you can do it again. Once she is a little more open to the idea you can start to ask if you can do it for longer periods. When you feel the time is right ask to formalize the relationship.